I don't believe there's any such things as "sluts"
Slut is an ugly, sexist and demeaning word.
I do think people are capable of making irresponsible sex decisions (male and female), but why use a word like sluts?
By using the word slut, which is mainly aimed at females, you bring values back 30+ years, and that's just ridiculous.
What's wrong with a woman with a healthy sexual appetite?
So what if someone has multiple sexual partners? What business is it of yours?
Somebody enjoys sex, they're not in, or don't want to be in a relationship, so why should they be left out?
Sex is purely a physical thing, and achieves mutual pleasure, emotion does not need to be attached to it, and neither does a stigma.
If both partners are consenting, safe (contraceptives, condoms are most preferable), legal and respectful, please explain to me what is exactly wrong with having as many sexual partners as they please when they're in the position to do so, and not have some disgusting stigma involved?
People can be disgusting.
(for the record, I haven't been called a slut reccently to set this off, just seeing someone with disgusting views on "women exposing themselves are asking to be raped")
Now for a personal vent.
I'm lonely.
Not all the time, but sometimes I am.
I love being single, I love having that freedom and independence. I couldn't have had a amazing party like I did on Saturday if I was in a relationship.
I've even considered that when I do eventually have a relationship, I'd discuss an open relationship with them.
But I'm lonely.
I want that emotional bond I can only get from that special connection with someone else.
Having someone to hug and cuddle up to, and kiss, and smile as soon as I see them, and just be so content and happy with being with them.
I want a fabulous, beautiful girl to be with, and be able to look at her and think "She picked me"
All these feelings are pointless, seeing as there's no one I'm gaga over, and that chances I've had to be in a relationship, I've backed away from and gotten scared, because I'm scared of making that commitment to the wrong person, and I hate breaking up with people.
I dunno, I guess I just wanna find someone who doesn't make me feel scared...
Come along soonish, please?
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